In love with my gay friend

Before you share the romantic feelings you have toward your friend, you want your friend to know that you are gay. Come out to your friend before you tell them you are in love with them. There are three possibilities if ever you confess: (1) it may go wrong and your friendship might end/might not be the same as before, (2) he likes you too, so good for you, or (3) he will turn it down but you will remain good friends.

That’s why I found myself in unfamiliar territory when I—the open guy, the “figured out” guy, the unquestionably straight guy—realized that I was in love with my best friend, a man. They appeared like any other couple growing up together, and moving away for college, but that all changed one year ago when Sarah's gay best friend Hunter expressed his feelings for both of. I am completely in love with him – but then there’s my best friend.

During the first year of my new relationship, my best friend came to me and told me he was gay. What are your thoughts?

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Tags relationships. Too, it sounds like this relationship isn't giving you what you want or need from a romantic relationship, which is an indicator that breaking up would be the kindest thing you could do for yourself and for him. Share Your Story Here! September 24, at am I am struggling with where the confusion lies. This is what I'm trying to say.

I feel that this may be a possibility. And, when we both found our romantic partners, those magical feelings just went away. I would like to read more from you and understand better. We both did not address it initially but we continued to share many moments together. When I was discovering my own sexuality and coming to terms with it, I fell for my straight best friend. My gay best friend has feelings for me.

He told me that he in love with my gay friend liked guys but had a few insignificant girl crushes. Just pull your pants back up first. But I would also need my own time to get myself up and clear. Unread post by Heather » Thu Aug 23, pm. And then have fun :D. A Participant. This is the place for your questions and discussions on any and all topics, with fellow users or staff, while you get your feet wet.

This best friend met my boyfriend 5 years ago in a bad situation and asked if he wanted to change his life. What's Your Reaction? How do I resolve these issues? Home Discussions Workshop Market Broadcasts. One fine day he says that he's romantisizing about us and that he has feelings for me. There have been long eye gazing that makes me feel uncomfortable. Unless you want it to be something else: like a romantic or sexual relationship, which it doesn't seem to be or seem at all likely to become, which probably has an awful lot to do with his orientation your friend says he's confused, but he sounds pretty clear to me: he's told you he's gay clearly, and seems very clear, and like he has been clear with you, that he doesn't feel attracted to youbut might be about other things as well.

I am a gay male with many straight friends. We're just 20 year olds who can't think about marriage right now. I always listened to him talk about guys although he broke my heart coz he trusted me and I was the first person he came out to.